You are what you are, male or female, but the gender you are has nothing to do with the gender of your body. I know many trans-gendered people, who realized that they were in the wrong body.
Many of them went through gender reassignment surgery to get the body they should have been born with. Others, simply kept the body, but changed their lives.
Do not let anyone or anything dictate to you who, and what you really are. Only you and the Gods know that. Learn who you are on the inside. Know thyself first, and foremost. Once you do, the gender of your physical body won't matter.